Meeting someone for companionship in Paris isn’t about buying a service-it’s about connecting. People often assume these interactions are transactional, cold, or scripted. But in reality, many escorts in Paris are thoughtful, well-traveled, and eager to share real conversation. The difference between a forgettable encounter and a meaningful one comes down to one thing: how you talk.
Start by treating them like a person, not a product
The biggest mistake people make is approaching the situation like a customer at a store. You wouldn’t walk into a café in Montmartre and demand the barista tell you about their childhood just because you paid for coffee. The same applies here. Escorts aren’t hired to perform emotional labor on command. They’re human beings with stories, opinions, and boundaries. Instead of leading with questions like "What’s your favorite thing about Paris?"-which sounds rehearsed-try starting with something you genuinely noticed. "I saw you were reading Camus earlier. I’ve been trying to get through The Stranger but keep getting stuck on the ending. What did you think?" That’s not a line. That’s a real question. And it shows you’re paying attention.Paris isn’t just a backdrop-it’s part of the conversation
Many escorts in Paris have lived here for years, sometimes decades. They know the hidden courtyards of Le Marais, the best croissants in the 15th arrondissement, and which metro line to avoid after midnight. They’ve seen tourists come and go, often treating the city like a photo op. Ask them about the places they actually like, not the ones in guidebooks. "Where do you go when you need to be alone?" or "Is there a park you go to when you’re tired of the crowds?" These questions open space for authentic answers. One escort I spoke with told me she walks along the Canal Saint-Martin every Sunday morning just to watch the old men play pétanque. She said it’s the only time she feels like she’s still part of the city, not just a figure in it.Don’t ask about their past unless they bring it up
It’s tempting to want to know how they got here. Why Paris? Why this job? But those questions can feel invasive, especially if they’ve been asked a hundred times before. Most escorts don’t owe you their life story. If they want to share, they will. Instead of asking "Why did you become an escort?" try: "What’s something you’ve learned from meeting people from all over the world?" That shifts the focus from their past to their perspective. It’s less about their history and more about their insight.
Be curious, not interrogative
A good conversation isn’t an interview. It’s a back-and-forth. If you spend the whole time asking questions and waiting for answers, it feels like a job interview gone wrong. Share something small about yourself too. Not your entire biography, but a real moment: "I got lost in the Latin Quarter yesterday and ended up in this tiny bookstore with no English titles. I bought a French poetry book just because the cover looked like a storm." That kind of detail invites reciprocity. People remember how you made them feel-not what you asked them. If you leave them feeling heard, not evaluated, you’ve done better than most.Language matters-even if you’re not fluent
You don’t need to speak perfect French. But saying "Bonjour," "Merci," and "C’est joli" shows respect. Many escorts in Paris are bilingual, but they still appreciate the effort. A simple "Je suis désolé, je ne parle pas bien français"-I’m sorry, I don’t speak French well-goes further than you think. And don’t rely on translation apps mid-conversation. They break the flow. If you’re unsure of a word, pause, gesture, smile. Most people will meet you halfway.
